Li refers to ritual. To act according to li is to act according to the proper social and religious rituals but also, in its broader sense, according to propriety and ettiquete. Decorum means to behave in a way that makes others comfortable. Li sets apart gentleman from barbarian. A barbarian gives spontaneous and often embarrassing expression to his emotions. | |
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The man of jen is a gentleman who is righteous, virtuous, human hearted, has self respect, magnanimity, acts in good faith and diligently, with benevolence and reciprocity. |
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Filial Piety |